Five Seduction Tropes You Should Roll Your Eyes At

by Frost on September 12, 2011

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Al Female September 18, 2011 at 2:24 pm

To the outcome independence thing, I always read that as just an inner game tactic. If you aren’t anxious about your results you’re less likely to fuck up.

In other words, if you’re thinking about how much you want to nail a chick, that’s going to leak out and work against you. But if you can distract yourself from thinking about the goal somewhat, you’ll come off as more relaxed.

Agreed though that there’s no point in detaching completely. What’s the point of bagging niners if you can’t enjoy it?

Pechorin September 13, 2011 at 6:03 pm

Agreed. The sycophancy towards sluts in pickup circles is especially nauseating.

The one thing to be said for outcome independence is that sometimes agonizing over the past or worrying about the future stops guys from doing what they need to do in the present. The concept got taken in a stupid direction, though.

J.W. Black September 12, 2011 at 8:30 am

Good topic. The PUAs definitely have some ideals that aren’t realistic. Game is just another tool in the bag – an important one though…like a hammer.

J.W. Black

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